Love in Action: Living out Jesus‘s Commands

Introduction: The Call to Obey God’s Commandments

What does it mean to love God in a world filled with challenges? The Bible provides a clear answer: loving God is inseparable from obeying His commands. In 1 John 5:2–3 (NIV), we read, “This is how we know that we love the children of God: by loving God and carrying out his commands. In fact, this is love for God: to keep his commands. And his commands are not burdensome.” The apostle John emphasises that obedience is the tangible expression of our love for God. Far from being oppressive, God’s commands are designed to lead us into abundant life.

This post begins a series exploring how we can live out our love for God by obeying the commands of Jesus. Today, we focus on three specific commands: loving our neighbour, forgiving others, and making disciples. Each command offers practical ways to reflect God’s love in our daily lives. By examining their meaning and application, we can take steps toward a deeper, more obedient faith.

A group of seven people, including both older adults and younger adults, standing together outdoors on a sunny day. They are smiling and appear to be enjoying each other’s company. Several of them are holding bags filled with fresh produce, such as leafy greens and other vegetables. The group is casually dressed, and they are standing on a paved street with yellow buildings and green trees in the background. In the distance, a church steeple is visible. The overall mood is cheerful and communal, suggesting they may have just come from a market or community event.

Examining Three Commands of Jesus

Command 1: Love Your Neighbour as Yourself (Mark 12:31)

Jesus declares in Mark 12:31 (NIV), “The second is this: ‘Love your neighbour as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” Paired with loving God, this command forms the foundation of Christian ethics. It calls us to treat others with the same care, respect, and selflessness we desire for ourselves.

Loving our neighbour does not mean accepting or endorsing sinfulness. True love seeks the ultimate good of others, which may involve graciously challenging sinful behaviour and sharing the Gospel. This command is radically inclusive, extending to friends, strangers, and even those who oppose us. It reflects God’s heart for all people, urging us to see others through His eyes.

Practically, we can obey this command by serving those around us—perhaps helping a struggling neighbour with practical needs or listening empathetically to a friend. Loving our neighbour might also mean gently pointing someone toward God’s truth through the Gospel, offering hope and redemption. For example, consider a church member who invited a colleague to a Bible study, patiently answering their questions about faith. Such actions embody Christ’s love. Reflect on your daily interactions: are they marked by this selfless, Gospel-centred love?

Command 2: Forgive Others (Matthew 6:14–15)

In Matthew 6:14–15 (NIV), Jesus teaches, “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” Spoken in the context of the Lord’s Prayer, this command underscores forgiveness as a cornerstone of Christian life.

Forgiveness means releasing resentment and extending grace, mirroring the forgiveness God offers us. It is not always easy—deep hurts, such as betrayal or injustice, can feel insurmountable. Yet Jesus calls us to forgive, relying on God’s strength to heal our wounds. Forgiveness does not excuse sin but frees us from bitterness and aligns us with God’s heart.

To apply this command, start by praying for those who have hurt you, asking God to soften your heart. Journaling can help process emotions, while seeking reconciliation—where appropriate—can restore relationships. For instance, forgiving a family member who apologised after a dispute can rebuild trust. Forgiveness is often a process, not a one-time act. Begin with small steps, trusting God to guide you toward healing and peace.

Command 3: Make Disciples (Matthew 28:19–20)

Jesus’s final charge, known as the Great Commission, is found in Matthew 28:19–20 (NIV): “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptising them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.” This command calls every believer to share the Gospel and nurture others in faith.

Making disciples involves sharing the good news of Jesus, mentoring new believers, and living as an example of His teachings. This command connects directly to loving our neighbour: there is no greater act of love than sharing God’s love through the Gospel, offering others the hope of eternal life. While the scope is global, discipleship begins in our immediate communities—with friends, family, or colleagues.

Practically, you can obey by sharing your faith with a friend, joining a small group to grow together, or mentoring a new believer. For deeper insight into the Great Commission, I recommend my book, From Doubt to Disciples, which explores how to live out this command with confidence. Grab a copy to discover practical steps for disciple-making. By modelling Christ’s love, your faith can become contagious, inspiring others to follow Him.

Conclusion: Living Out Love Through Obedience

The commands to love our neighbour, forgive others, and make disciples are powerful expressions of loving God, as outlined in 1 John 5:2–3. Loving our neighbour includes sharing the Gospel, not affirming sin, ensuring our love points to God’s truth. Forgiving others reflects God’s grace, freeing us to live in peace. Making disciples, the ultimate act of neighbourly love, spreads God’s hope to others. These commands, though challenging, are not burdensome—they lead to a life aligned with God’s purpose.

Start small: choose one command to focus on this week. Perhaps offer a kind word to a neighbour, forgive a lingering hurt, or share your faith with a friend. God’s grace empowers us to grow in obedience, transforming our lives and communities. This post is the first in a series exploring Jesus’s commands. Future posts will examine others, such as “Do not judge” or “Follow me,” to deepen our journey.

Jesus said if you love me, you will obey me… How much will you love him this week?

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