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Partnering for the Truth in a Digital Age (3 John 5–8)

In this instalment of our series exploring the Book of 3 John, we examine verses 5–8, where the Apostle John commends Gaius for supporting travelling missionaries. This passage underscores the critical role of hospitality and partnership in advancing the gospel. As we study each verse, we’ll explore its significance and consider its application in our modern context, where physical itinerant preaching has largely been replaced by digital ministries. These “digital missionaries” spread the gospel online, and this passage offers guidance for supporting their work. We’ll also delve into verse 7, which highlights the missionaries’ refusal to accept support from non-believers, emphasising how this choice serves as a powerful witness to the world while preserving the gospel’s integrity. Additionally, we’ll clarify that while our tithes belong primarily to the local church, our offerings can be directed as the Lord leads to support missionaries, digital or otherwise, with discernment to ensure our giving aligns with God’s purposes.

3 John 5 – Faithful Hospitality

“Dear friend, you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers and sisters, even though they are strangers to you.”

John praises Gaius for his faithful support of fellow believers, particularly travelling missionaries, whom he calls “brothers and sisters.” The inclusion of “strangers” underscores Gaius’ generosity toward those he doesn’t personally know, reflecting a selfless commitment to God’s work.

Gaius’ faithfulness shines through in his practical support for missionaries, providing resources like food, shelter, or funds despite lacking personal ties with them. This hospitality was essential for enabling itinerant ministers to spread the gospel, demonstrating a love that transcends familiarity and fosters unity in the early church’s mission.

3 John 6 – Commending Generosity

“They have told the church about your love. Please send them on their way in a manner that honours God.”

The missionaries Gaius supported shared testimonies of his love before the church, affirming his reputation for generosity. John urges him to continue equipping these workers “in a manner that honours God,” ensuring their journey is supported with dignity and resources.

Gaius’ support not only sustained the missionaries but also strengthened the church’s witness through their public praise. The call to send them off honourably suggests providing practical aid—such as provisions, encouragement, or travel assistance—that reflects God’s generosity and upholds the mission’s integrity, ensuring missionaries could continue their work unhindered.

3 John 7 – Sacrificial Service and Witness to the World

“It was for the sake of the Name that they went out, receiving no help from the pagans.”

John highlights the missionaries’ sacrifice: they ventured out “for the sake of the Name” (Christ), relying solely on believers’ support and refusing aid from “pagans” (non-believers). This choice ensured their mission remained a clear testimony to the world.

Primarily, refusing pagan support allowed the missionaries to present a powerful witness to non-believers. By depending solely on the church, they demonstrated that the gospel is self-sufficient, sustained by God’s provision through His people, not by worldly resources. This independence signalled to pagans that the message of Christ stood apart from secular agendas, inviting curiosity and respect for the faith. A notable example is the Apostle Paul, who worked as a tentmaker to support himself, as described in Acts 18:3: “and because he was a tentmaker as they were, he stayed and worked with them.” Paul also writes in 1 Thessalonians 2:9, “Surely you remember, brothers and sisters, our toil and hardship; we worked night and day in order not to be a burden to anyone while we preached the gospel of God to you.” By labouring with his hands, Paul avoided burdening those he ministered to, reinforcing the gospel’s credibility as a message free from reliance on non-believers. Additionally, this practice preserved the gospel’s purity, preventing entanglement with external influences that might dilute or compromise its truth. While both witness and integrity were crucial, the outward testimony to the world was paramount, showcasing the missionaries’ trust in God and the church’s unity in supporting the mission.

The Need for Discernment in Giving

When supporting missionaries, particularly digital ones, we must exercise wisdom and discernment in our giving. Unlike travelling ministers, whose character and lifestyle could often be observed directly by the communities they served, digital missionaries operate in a virtual space, making it harder to assess whether they bear good fruit for the gospel. While we can evaluate their teaching at face value, their personal conduct—how they live out their faith behind the scenes—remains less visible. To ensure our offerings honour God, we should seek ministries that demonstrate transparency, such as those publishing financial accounts or clearly outlining their mission and impact. For example, supporting a digital ministry that provides detailed reports on how donations are used reflects wise stewardship, ensuring our gifts advance the gospel through trustworthy channels.

3 John 8 – Partners in Truth

“We ought therefore to show hospitality to such people so that we may work together for the truth.”

John concludes by urging believers to support these missionaries, becoming “fellow workers for the truth.” By aiding them, Gaius and others actively participate in their gospel mission, sharing in its impact.

Supporting God’s workers makes believers partners in spreading the truth. The term “fellow workers” implies a collaborative effort, where every act of hospitality—however small—contributes to the mission of proclaiming Christ, uniting the church in a shared purpose.

Application Today: The message of 3 John 5–8 resonates in our digital age, where online ministries serve as modern equivalents of travelling missionaries. Just as Gaius supported strangers for the sake of the gospel, we can back “digital missionaries”—pastors, podcasters, or content creators—who spread God’s Word through platforms like YouTube, social media, or apps. This support might include engaging with their content, sharing posts to amplify their reach, or contributing offerings to sustain their work, such as donations to maintain websites, fund outreach campaigns, or develop Christian apps. However, we must prioritise our tithes to the local church, which serves as the primary hub for worship, teaching, and community, ensuring its ministries thrive. Our offerings, beyond the tithe, can be directed as the Lord leads to support missionaries, whether digital or traditional, provided we use discernment to ensure their credibility. The principle of refusing pagan support, as seen in verse 7, remains vital. Many digital ministries avoid secular sponsorships to maintain a clear witness to the world, showing that the gospel relies on God’s provision through His people, not on commercial or ideological influences. By supporting these ministries, we help them uphold this testimony, demonstrating to non-believers the power and independence of the Christian faith. For example, donating to a Christian podcast that refuses secular ads or promoting a YouTube channel that relies solely on believer support reinforces this witness. As we partner with these ministries through our offerings, we become fellow workers for the truth, advancing Christ’s mission in a digital world.

Conclusion: The example of Gaius in 3 John 5–8 challenges us to support those who proclaim the gospel, just as he did for travelling missionaries. In today’s context, this means standing with digital missionaries who carry God’s truth to global audiences. While our tithes belong first to the local church, our offerings can be given as the Lord leads to support these ministries, using discernment to ensure they are worthy of our gifts. By refusing pagan support, these missionaries maintain a strong witness to the world, and through our resources, engagement, and prayers, we uphold the gospel’s integrity and become partners in spreading the truth in our time.

A Mighty Message in a Little Letter – 3 John: A Call to Faith, Hospitality, and Truth

Imagine receiving a personal letter from a trusted friend, filled with encouragement, warnings, and a call to live faithfully. The letter of 3 John is just that—a brief but powerful message that resonates with us today. Written by the Apostle John, this short epistle addresses Gaius, a faithful believer, and tackles issues in the early church. In this post,I will unpack the key themes of 3 John, outline its structure, and offer practical applications for our lives.

Though concise, 3 John reveals timeless truths about walking in truth, showing hospitality, and confronting challenges in the church.

A cartoon postman/mailman carrying a tiny letter with a church in the background as if he is delivering this small but important epistle

Context and Background

The letter of 3 John is traditionally attributed to the Apostle John, the same author of 1 and 2 John and the Gospel of John, based on its similar style and theological emphasis. Likely written in the late 1st century, the letter is addressed to Gaius, a beloved member of a Christian community, with references to two other figures: Diotrephes and Demetrius. The setting appears to be a church facing internal conflicts, particularly regarding the support of traveling missionaries and issues of authority.

John’s purpose in writing is multifaceted: to commend Gaius for his faithfulness, to warn against the disruptive behavior of Diotrephes, and to encourage continued support for missionaries spreading the gospel. Despite its brevity—only 14 verses—3 John holds significant value for understanding personal relationships, truth, and hospitality in the early church. It reminds us that even small acts of faithfulness can have a lasting impact.

Outline of Key Topics in 3 John

Greeting and Commendation (Verses 1-4)

The letter opens with John’s warm greeting to Gaius, whom he addresses with affection and describes as beloved. John expresses joy upon hearing that Gaius is “walking in the truth,” a phrase that underscores Gaius’ faithfulness to the gospel. This section highlights the importance of living a life aligned with God’s truth, a central theme of John’s writings. For John, truth is not merely intellectual assent but a way of life that reflects commitment to Christ.

Hospitality and Support for Missionaries (Verses 5-8)

John praises Gaius for his hospitality toward traveling Christian workers, likely itinerant missionaries spreading the gospel. Gaius has provided practical support, such as food and shelter, enabling these workers to continue their ministry. John urges Gaius to persist in this generosity, noting that supporting such workers makes believers “co-workers for the truth.” This section emphasizes the role of hospitality in advancing God’s kingdom and our shared responsibility to support gospel work.

Warning Against Diotrephes (Verses 9-10)

John then addresses a troubling issue: the behavior of Diotrephes, a church member who rejects John’s authority and refuses to welcome traveling missionaries. Diotrephes’ actions are driven by pride, as he seeks preeminence and even expels those who disagree with him. John promises to address this behavior directly if he visits, highlighting the dangers of pride and division in the church. This section serves as a caution against self-centered leadership that undermines the unity and mission of the Christian community.

Commendation of Demetrius (Verses 11-12)

In contrast to Diotrephes, John commends Demetrius, who has a good reputation among the church and is likely a missionary or leader. John encourages Gaius to “imitate what is good” rather than evil, presenting Demetrius as a godly example. This brief section underscores the value of positive role models in the Christian life and the importance of character in leadership.

Closing and Personal Note (Verses 13-14)

John concludes with a personal note, expressing his desire to visit Gaius in person rather than communicate only through letters. He sends greetings from mutual friends and blesses Gaius with peace. This closing reinforces the value of personal connection in the Christian community, reminding us that relationships are central to the life of the church.

Practical Applications for Today

The letter of 3 John, though written to a specific individual in a specific context, offers timeless lessons for us today. Here are five practical applications for living out its teachings:

Walking in Truth

John’s joy over Gaius’ faithfulness encourages us to prioritize studying and applying Scripture in daily life. We ought to live out biblical truth in our actions and decisions, not just understand it intellectually. We should foster accountability by engaging in Bible study groups or mentoring relationships to stay rooted in God’s truth.

Practicing Hospitality

Gaius’ support for missionaries challenges us to open our homes and resources to those in need, particularly those serving in ministry. We should consider hosting a missionary, supporting a local outreach, or providing practical help to church workers. We ought to cultivate a culture of generosity in our churches by organizing initiatives to support global or local missions.

Addressing Division

The example of Diotrephes serves as a warning against prideful or divisive behavior in the church. We should confront such issues with humility and grace, seeking reconciliation and unity. We ought to promote a shared focus on the gospel to prevent self-centeredness from fracturing our communities.

Imitating Godly Examples

Demetrius’ good reputation highlights the importance of seeking and becoming godly role models. We should identify mentors who reflect Christlike character and strive to emulate their faith and integrity. Likewise, we ought to inspire others by living with consistency and humility in our communities.

Building Personal Connections

John’s desire for a face-to-face visit underscores the value of personal relationships in the church. We should invest in meaningful interactions, whether through small groups, one-on-one discipleship, or sending encouraging notes. Building strong connections strengthens our churches’ witness and fosters mutual support.

Conclusion

The letter of 3 John, though only 14 verses long, is a rich and relevant message for us today. It calls us to walk in truth, practice hospitality, confront division, follow godly examples, and build personal connections. These timeless principles challenge us to live faithfully in our churches and communities. We should reflect on how we can apply these lessons—perhaps by supporting a missionary, fostering unity, or mentoring others. Let 3 John inspire us to love generously and strengthen the body of Christ.

If you would be interested in doing a verse by verse study of this letter, do let me know in the comments! Thanks 

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Impromptu Invite – Sunday Suggestion

Most churches have some form of coffee or refreshment after the service on a Sunday morning. This can be a great time of fellowship, but often (especially with children) it can fly by too fast and you do not get the chance to really speak with people. Why not extend that time of encouragement by inviting someone back to your home for a meal?

I know what you are thinking, “I need to plan that sort of thing…” “I haven’t cleaned up yet this weekend…” or “I’m not sure there’s enough food to go around.” While you may be able to make the house more presentable, or you may be able to serve up a better meal if you plan ahead, the point is not the perfect surroundings or exquisite cuisine. The point is to connect with people.

Aside from when I’m in the pulpit, I’m generally an introvert kind of person. An afternoon spent with people I do not know well sounds a lot like hard work to me! Yet this is the kind of hard work that pays. It will be a blessing to you, of course, but more importantly it will be a blessing to your guest.

In our busy world and hectic lives, we rarely have time to develop strong and deep relationships with people. Nothing can achieve this without time and investment. There are times when we do click with people without much effort, but generally all relationships take time and effort.

The Bible says:

Be glad to take other Christians into your house and care for them. And do not grumble about it.

10 God has given each person a gift. That gift is something he can do. Each one should use his gift to help the others. In that way you all make good use of the many blessings God has given you.

11 Has God blessed you by knowing how to talk? Then you should talk the words of God. Are you a helper? Then you should help with the strength God has given you. In all that you do, you should show that God is great through Jesus Christ. He has praise and power for ever. Yes, he has!

1 Peter 4:9011 WEB

Be glad to take other Christians into your house and care for them #Bible #hospitality

There is nothing I can add to this! Be glad to bring believers into your home, share with them, build them up and make them feel part of the family – because they are.

Have a great Sunday!