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Understanding God’s Will in the Face of Suffering: Acts 21 and the Prophecy of Agabus

In Acts 21, we encounter a striking moment where the apostle Paul, guided by the Holy Spirit towards Jerusalem, receives a sobering prophecy about his future. This passage raises important questions about the nature of prophecy, human response to divine will, and the tension between well-meaning counsel and obedience to God’s calling.

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The Prophecy of Agabus (Acts 21:10-14, ESV)

“While we were staying for many days, a prophet named Agabus came down from Judea. And coming to us, he took Paul’s belt and bound his own feet and hands and said, ‘Thus says the Holy Spirit, “This is how the Jews at Jerusalem will bind the man who owns this belt and deliver him into the hands of the Gentiles.”’ When we heard this, we and the people there urged him not to go up to Jerusalem. Then Paul answered, ‘What are you doing, weeping and breaking my heart? For I am ready not only to be imprisoned but even to die in Jerusalem for the name of the Lord Jesus.’ And since he would not be persuaded, we ceased and said, ‘Let the will of the Lord be done.’”

This passage follows Paul’s earlier declaration in Acts 20:22-24 (ESV):

“And now, behold, bound by the Spirit, I am going to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there, except that the Holy Spirit testifies to me in every city that imprisonment and afflictions await me. But I do not account my life of any value nor as precious to myself, if only I may finish my course and the ministry that I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God.”

1. The Nature of Agabus’ Prophecy

Agabus, a prophet from Judea, delivered a message from the Holy Spirit using symbolic action—a method reminiscent of Old Testament prophets (e.g., Ezekiel’s enacted prophecies in Ezekiel 4-5). His prophecy was predictive, not prescriptive: it revealed what would happen, not necessarily what Paul should do.

Some prophecies in Scripture are conditional, offering warnings that may be averted through repentance (e.g., Jonah’s message to Nineveh). However, Agabus’ words carried no hint of conditionality—they were a straightforward declaration of future events. This raises the question: if the prophecy was certain, why did the believers urge Paul to avoid Jerusalem?

2. The Believers’ Response: Love vs. God’s Will

The disciples, including Luke (the author of Acts), pleaded with Paul not to go. Their reaction was natural:

  • They loved Paul and did not want him to suffer.
  • They may have misinterpreted the prophecy as a warning rather than a confirmation of God’s plan.

This mirrors Peter’s reaction in Matthew 16:22 (ESV) when Jesus foretold His crucifixion:

“Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him, saying, ‘Far be it from you, Lord! This shall never happen to you.’”
Jesus’ response was sharp: “Get behind me, Satan! You are a hindrance to me. For you are not setting your mind on the things of God, but on the things of man.” (Matthew 16:23, ESV).

Similarly, the believers in Acts 21 were operating from human concern, not divine perspective. Their intentions were good, but their advice, if followed, would have diverted Paul from God’s purpose.

3. Paul’s Resolve: Embracing Suffering for Christ

Paul’s response was unwavering:

  • He was “ready not only to be imprisoned but even to die” (Acts 21:13).
  • He saw his suffering as part of his calling (Acts 20:24; Philippians 1:20-21).

His attitude reflects Jesus’ words in Luke 9:23-24 (ESV):

“If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it.”

Paul understood that obedience to God sometimes requires embracing hardship. His journey to Jerusalem was not reckless defiance but faithful surrender.

4. Lessons for Discerning God’s Will Today

This passage offers key principles for Christians facing difficult decisions:

  • Prophecy Reveals, But Does Not Always Direct
    Agabus’ prophecy confirmed what awaited Paul, but it did not instruct him to avoid it. Likewise, God may reveal challenges ahead without necessarily calling us to evade them.
  • Well-Meaning Counsel Must Be Weighed Against God’s Word
    The believers’ pleas were heartfelt, but Paul prioritised the Spirit’s leading. Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV) reminds us:

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”

  • Suffering May Be Part of God’s Plan
    Scripture repeatedly associates faithfulness with endurance (Romans 5:3-5; 1 Peter 4:12-13). Avoiding suffering is not always the godliest choice.

Conclusion: “Let the Will of the Lord Be Done”

The believers’ final words—“Let the will of the Lord be done” (Acts 21:14)—mark their submission to God’s higher purpose. Paul’s example challenges us to:

  • Seek God’s perspective over comfort.
  • Trust that His plans, even when painful, are purposeful.
  • Remain steadfast when well-meaning advice conflicts with divine calling.

In a world that prioritises safety and self-preservation, Paul’s resolve reminds us that the greatest fulfilment lies in surrendering to God’s will—whatever the cost.

It is always wise to listen to godly Council. The people who care about us, will naturally not want us to come to harm. We would not be sensible to simply ignore their love or advice. This is especially true on making a big decision, or one that potentially leads us down a dangerous path.

At the end of the day though, we are answerable only to God. If he is instructing us to do something, and the entire rest of the world is telling us not to, then of course we must follow him. God over man.

The most difficult part, for me at least, is discerning God’s will. Few of us will receive a clear prophecy as Paul did in today’s passage, so we must always be cautious to follow God’s will carefully. We all want a neon sign telling us which way to go, but for the most part, we are to study and understand the Bible and discern gods will from that alone.

Using appropriate wisdom and discernment, all any of us can do is try to follow God to the best of our ability. 

Understanding Samson’s Downfall (Judges 16)

Recently, I was reading Judges 16—the story of Samson and Delilah—and found myself struggling to understand it. Why would a man gifted with supernatural strength repeatedly fall for the same trick? Why did Samson keep trusting Delilah after she betrayed him multiple times? And what can we learn from his mistakes?

This passage is both fascinating and tragic, showing how even the strongest individuals can be brought down by their own flaws. As I reflected on it, I began to see some possible reasons for Samson’s actions—and some warnings for us today.

The Story of Samson and Delilah (Judges 16:4–21)

Samson, a Nazirite chosen by God to deliver Israel from the Philistines, was a man of extraordinary physical strength. Yet his weakness for women—particularly Philistine women—led to his downfall. In Judges 16, he meets Delilah, who is bribed by the Philistine rulers to discover the secret of his strength.

Three times, Samson gives her false answers:

  1. “If I am bound with fresh bowstrings, I shall become weak.” (Judges 16:7)
  2. “If I am tied with new ropes, I shall lose my strength.” (Judges 16:11)
  3. “If you weave my hair into a loom, I shall be as weak as any man.” (Judges 16:13)

Each time, Delilah tests his claims, and the Philistines attempt to capture him—only to fail. Yet Samson does not leave her. Instead, he finally reveals the truth: his uncut hair (a sign of his Nazirite vow) is the source of his power. Delilah shaves his head while he sleeps, and “the Lord left him” (Judges 16:20). The Philistines seize him, gouge out his eyes, and imprison him in humiliation.

Why Did Samson Keep Trusting Delilah?

At first glance, Samson’s actions seem reckless. Why would a man who had already escaped multiple traps continue playing this dangerous game? Here are some possible explanations:

1. Overconfidence in His Own Strength

Samson had survived many battles and traps before (Judges 14–15). He may have believed he was untouchable, forgetting that his power came from God’s Spirit, not himself (Judges 13:25; 16:20). His pride blinded him to real danger.

2. Emotional Manipulation and Weakness

The text says Delilah “pressed him daily with her words and urged him” (Judges 16:16). The Hebrew suggests she wore him down emotionally—perhaps through tears, guilt, or seduction. Samson, though physically strong, was emotionally vulnerable.

3. Gradual Spiritual Decline

Samson had a pattern of ignoring his Nazirite vow (Numbers 6:1–8):

  • He touched a dead lion (Judges 14:8–9).
  • He feasted with enemies (Judges 14:10).
  • He slept with a prostitute (Judges 16:1).
    His hair was the last remaining symbol of his dedication to God—yet he gambled it away.

4. Testing the Limits

Each time Samson gave a false answer, the Philistines failed to capture him. He may have thought he could keep outsmarting them, not realising that his defiance was pushing him toward disaster.

5. God’s Sovereign Plan

Despite Samson’s failures, God used his downfall to strike a decisive blow against the Philistines (Judges 16:30). Even in judgment, there was purpose.

Lessons We Can Learn from Samson’s Mistakes

Samson’s story is more than a tragic tale—it’s a warning about the dangers of pride, lust, and gradual compromise. Here are some pitfalls we can avoid:

1. Strength Without Wisdom Leads to Ruin

Samson was physically mighty but morally weak. His story reminds us that gifts without discipline can lead to self-destruction.

2. Small Compromises Lead to Big Falls

Samson didn’t lose his strength overnight. His downfall came through small, repeated compromises—ignoring his vow, indulging in forbidden relationships, and playing with sin.

3. Emotional Manipulation Is Dangerous

Delilah exploited Samson’s weakness. In our lives, unhealthy relationships—whether romantic, friendships, or even professional—can lead us away from wisdom if we’re not careful.

4. God’s Grace in Judgment

Even in Samson’s failure, God still used him. His final prayer (Judges 16:28–30) shows a moment of repentance, and his death brought a greater victory. This reminds us that God can redeem even our worst mistakes.

Final Thoughts: Wrestling with Difficult Passages

I’ll admit, there’s still much about this account that I don’t fully understand. Why did God allow Samson to make such reckless choices? Why did he not leave Delilah after the first betrayal? Some parts of Scripture are like that—complex, challenging, and requiring deeper meditation.

But here’s the comfort: we don’t have to understand everything. Even in confusing passages, there are truths to be found—about human nature, God’s justice, and His mercy. Sometimes, the best response is to pray over what we read, ask for wisdom (James 1:5), and trust that God’s Word is purposeful, even when we don’t grasp it fully.

Samson’s life is a sobering lesson, but it’s also a reminder that no one is beyond redemption. If there’s hope for Samson in his final moments, there’s hope for us too.

True Treasure in righteousness (Proverbs 10:2) 

Proverbs 10:2 states: “Treasures gained by wickedness do not profit, but righteousness delivers from death” (ESV). This verse offers a profound contrast between the fleeting value of ill-gotten wealth and the enduring worth of righteousness. Its message remains vital today, guiding us to seek true treasure in a life aligned with God’s principles.

The verse highlights two paths: “treasures gained by wickedness” refers to wealth or success obtained through dishonest means—fraud, exploitation, or deceit. Such gains “do not profit,” meaning they are ultimately empty, unable to provide lasting security or fulfilment. In contrast, “righteousness delivers from death,” suggesting that a life of integrity and right standing with God offers true deliverance, both from spiritual ruin and the consequences of immoral choices. Righteousness, in this context, is more than moral uprightness; it is a state of being reconciled with God, living in harmony with His will.

Our real treasure lies in this righteousness. Unlike material wealth, which can be lost or devalued, righteousness brings eternal value. It reflects a heart aligned with God’s justice, compassion, and truth. For example, choosing honesty in business dealings, even at personal cost, builds trust and integrity that outlast temporary profits. Righteousness also means standing right before God, forgiven and restored through faith, which provides peace that no amount of money can buy.

Practically, Proverbs 10:2 challenges us to prioritise ethical living. In a world obsessed with success—whether through career, wealth, or status—it’s tempting to bend principles for gain. A professional might inflate their achievements to climb the corporate ladder, or a student might cheat to pass an exam. The verse warns that such choices lead to hollow victories, often with consequences like broken relationships or eroded self-worth. Instead, pursuing righteousness—through honest work, fair treatment of others, or humility—yields lasting rewards. It protects us from the “death” of guilt, shame, or ruined reputations and anchors us in God’s grace.

Righteousness as our treasure also transforms our perspective. Material wealth fades, but a life rooted in God’s righteousness endures, offering hope beyond this world. It’s a treasure that grows through acts of kindness, integrity, and devotion, enriching both the individual and their community.

In conclusion, Proverbs 10:2 reminds us that true profit lies in righteousness—being morally upright and in right standing with God. This treasure is only fully realised through a sustained relationship with Jesus Christ as our Lord and Saviour. Through Him, we find forgiveness, guidance, and the strength to live rightly, securing a reward that no earthly wealth can match.

Wise Sons, Foolish Children, and Worrying Parents (Proverbs 10:1)

“A wise son brings joy to his father, but a foolish son brings grief to his mother.”

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This proverb from the book of Proverbs cuts right to the chase about how a child’s actions profoundly affect their parents. When it speaks of a “wise” son, it’s not just about academic cleverness or quick wit. It refers to someone who consistently makes good choices, acts with integrity, and shows sound judgment in life. This kind of child brings immense happiness and a deep sense of pride to their father. Their thoughtful and responsible decisions reflect well on their upbringing, leading to positive outcomes that fill their parents with contentment.

Conversely, a “foolish” son is someone who acts impulsively, makes poor decisions, or disregards good counsel. Their actions often lead to negative consequences, causing distress, worry, and significant sadness, particularly for their mother. This isn’t about a lack of love, but the heavy emotional burden of witnessing a child stray from a path of well-being and purpose. It’s a challenging experience for any parent to see their child struggle due to misguided choices.

This ancient saying holds remarkable relevance in our modern lives. It serves as a potent reminder that our choices and behaviours have a tangible impact on those who care for us most deeply – our parents. It prompts us to consider: are our actions bringing joy or grief to those who have invested so much in our lives? It encourages us to cultivate wisdom – to seek understanding, exercise good judgment, and act with integrity in all we do.

For parents, this proverb also subtly underscores the profound and enduring nature of their role. Once you become a parent, you never stop being one. We parents often carry a deep-seated concern about how our children will turn out, a worry that can last a lifetime. This verse highlights that we have a tremendous influence in shaping our children’s character during their formative years. The values we instil, the guidance we provide, and the environment we create all contribute significantly to the development of their wisdom and moral compass.

However, as children grow up, they inevitably take responsibility for their own actions. While parental influence is vast, the ultimate choices made by adult children are their own. The proverb acknowledges this journey from parental guidance to individual accountability. Ultimately, Proverbs 10:1 offers a timeless principle: living wisely leads to a flourishing life, not just for the individual, but for their wider family circle, fostering a legacy of joy rather than sorrow.

The ultimate wisdom we hope our children cultivate is the wisdom to follow Christ.

Whether you are a parent or a child, or somewhere in between, make wise choices today which you will be happy with for a lifetime.

Partnering for the Truth in a Digital Age (3 John 5–8)

In this instalment of our series exploring the Book of 3 John, we examine verses 5–8, where the Apostle John commends Gaius for supporting travelling missionaries. This passage underscores the critical role of hospitality and partnership in advancing the gospel. As we study each verse, we’ll explore its significance and consider its application in our modern context, where physical itinerant preaching has largely been replaced by digital ministries. These “digital missionaries” spread the gospel online, and this passage offers guidance for supporting their work. We’ll also delve into verse 7, which highlights the missionaries’ refusal to accept support from non-believers, emphasising how this choice serves as a powerful witness to the world while preserving the gospel’s integrity. Additionally, we’ll clarify that while our tithes belong primarily to the local church, our offerings can be directed as the Lord leads to support missionaries, digital or otherwise, with discernment to ensure our giving aligns with God’s purposes.

3 John 5 – Faithful Hospitality

“Dear friend, you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers and sisters, even though they are strangers to you.”

John praises Gaius for his faithful support of fellow believers, particularly travelling missionaries, whom he calls “brothers and sisters.” The inclusion of “strangers” underscores Gaius’ generosity toward those he doesn’t personally know, reflecting a selfless commitment to God’s work.

Gaius’ faithfulness shines through in his practical support for missionaries, providing resources like food, shelter, or funds despite lacking personal ties with them. This hospitality was essential for enabling itinerant ministers to spread the gospel, demonstrating a love that transcends familiarity and fosters unity in the early church’s mission.

3 John 6 – Commending Generosity

“They have told the church about your love. Please send them on their way in a manner that honours God.”

The missionaries Gaius supported shared testimonies of his love before the church, affirming his reputation for generosity. John urges him to continue equipping these workers “in a manner that honours God,” ensuring their journey is supported with dignity and resources.

Gaius’ support not only sustained the missionaries but also strengthened the church’s witness through their public praise. The call to send them off honourably suggests providing practical aid—such as provisions, encouragement, or travel assistance—that reflects God’s generosity and upholds the mission’s integrity, ensuring missionaries could continue their work unhindered.

3 John 7 – Sacrificial Service and Witness to the World

“It was for the sake of the Name that they went out, receiving no help from the pagans.”

John highlights the missionaries’ sacrifice: they ventured out “for the sake of the Name” (Christ), relying solely on believers’ support and refusing aid from “pagans” (non-believers). This choice ensured their mission remained a clear testimony to the world.

Primarily, refusing pagan support allowed the missionaries to present a powerful witness to non-believers. By depending solely on the church, they demonstrated that the gospel is self-sufficient, sustained by God’s provision through His people, not by worldly resources. This independence signalled to pagans that the message of Christ stood apart from secular agendas, inviting curiosity and respect for the faith. A notable example is the Apostle Paul, who worked as a tentmaker to support himself, as described in Acts 18:3: “and because he was a tentmaker as they were, he stayed and worked with them.” Paul also writes in 1 Thessalonians 2:9, “Surely you remember, brothers and sisters, our toil and hardship; we worked night and day in order not to be a burden to anyone while we preached the gospel of God to you.” By labouring with his hands, Paul avoided burdening those he ministered to, reinforcing the gospel’s credibility as a message free from reliance on non-believers. Additionally, this practice preserved the gospel’s purity, preventing entanglement with external influences that might dilute or compromise its truth. While both witness and integrity were crucial, the outward testimony to the world was paramount, showcasing the missionaries’ trust in God and the church’s unity in supporting the mission.

The Need for Discernment in Giving

When supporting missionaries, particularly digital ones, we must exercise wisdom and discernment in our giving. Unlike travelling ministers, whose character and lifestyle could often be observed directly by the communities they served, digital missionaries operate in a virtual space, making it harder to assess whether they bear good fruit for the gospel. While we can evaluate their teaching at face value, their personal conduct—how they live out their faith behind the scenes—remains less visible. To ensure our offerings honour God, we should seek ministries that demonstrate transparency, such as those publishing financial accounts or clearly outlining their mission and impact. For example, supporting a digital ministry that provides detailed reports on how donations are used reflects wise stewardship, ensuring our gifts advance the gospel through trustworthy channels.

3 John 8 – Partners in Truth

“We ought therefore to show hospitality to such people so that we may work together for the truth.”

John concludes by urging believers to support these missionaries, becoming “fellow workers for the truth.” By aiding them, Gaius and others actively participate in their gospel mission, sharing in its impact.

Supporting God’s workers makes believers partners in spreading the truth. The term “fellow workers” implies a collaborative effort, where every act of hospitality—however small—contributes to the mission of proclaiming Christ, uniting the church in a shared purpose.

Application Today: The message of 3 John 5–8 resonates in our digital age, where online ministries serve as modern equivalents of travelling missionaries. Just as Gaius supported strangers for the sake of the gospel, we can back “digital missionaries”—pastors, podcasters, or content creators—who spread God’s Word through platforms like YouTube, social media, or apps. This support might include engaging with their content, sharing posts to amplify their reach, or contributing offerings to sustain their work, such as donations to maintain websites, fund outreach campaigns, or develop Christian apps. However, we must prioritise our tithes to the local church, which serves as the primary hub for worship, teaching, and community, ensuring its ministries thrive. Our offerings, beyond the tithe, can be directed as the Lord leads to support missionaries, whether digital or traditional, provided we use discernment to ensure their credibility. The principle of refusing pagan support, as seen in verse 7, remains vital. Many digital ministries avoid secular sponsorships to maintain a clear witness to the world, showing that the gospel relies on God’s provision through His people, not on commercial or ideological influences. By supporting these ministries, we help them uphold this testimony, demonstrating to non-believers the power and independence of the Christian faith. For example, donating to a Christian podcast that refuses secular ads or promoting a YouTube channel that relies solely on believer support reinforces this witness. As we partner with these ministries through our offerings, we become fellow workers for the truth, advancing Christ’s mission in a digital world.

Conclusion: The example of Gaius in 3 John 5–8 challenges us to support those who proclaim the gospel, just as he did for travelling missionaries. In today’s context, this means standing with digital missionaries who carry God’s truth to global audiences. While our tithes belong first to the local church, our offerings can be given as the Lord leads to support these ministries, using discernment to ensure they are worthy of our gifts. By refusing pagan support, these missionaries maintain a strong witness to the world, and through our resources, engagement, and prayers, we uphold the gospel’s integrity and become partners in spreading the truth in our time.

Traits of a Biblical Man: Decision-making. The Weight of the Crown 

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In a world often defined by ambiguity and a reluctance to commit, the call for decisive leadership rings louder than ever. For Christian men, this call is not merely a secular ideal but a biblical mandate, woven into the very fabric of God’s design for humanity. From the dawn of creation to the restoration of a city, the Bible provides powerful examples of men who embraced their leadership roles by making pivotal decisions.

Let’s explore three distinct moments of decision-making from biblical narratives: Adam in Eden, David facing Goliath, and Nehemiah approaching the king. Through their choices, we uncover timeless principles for modern biblical leadership.

Adam: The Steward’s First Decree (Genesis 2:19-20)

Our journey begins in the pristine Garden of Eden, where God entrusts Adam with dominion over creation. Before the fall, in a moment of pure stewardship, God brings all the animals to Adam “to see what he would name them.” This seemingly simple act is profound. It wasn’t God who named the animals; it was Adam’s responsibility and privilege.

The Decision: Adam decided on the names for every living creature. This was not a passive observation but an active engagement with his delegated authority. Each name he uttered was a declaration of his understanding and relationship with creation, a tangible exercise of his leadership over the animal kingdom.

Role in Leadership/Decision-Making: Adam’s decision-making here highlights the essence of responsible stewardship. As the first man, he was given dominion and immediately put that authority into practice. His decision to name the animals demonstrates active participation in God’s creative order, an immediate embrace of his assigned role. For us, this speaks to the importance of taking ownership and making informed decisions in our spheres of influence, whether that’s our home, our workplace, or our community.

David: The Courage to Stand (1 Samuel 17:32-37)

Thousands of years later, on a battlefield in the Valley of Elah, fear gripped the armies of Israel. The giant Philistine, Goliath, hurled insults and challenges, yet no Israelite warrior dared to face him. It was a moment of national paralysis, until a young shepherd boy arrived with provisions.

The Decision: When David heard Goliath’s blasphemies and witnessed the fear of his countrymen, he was moved with righteous indignation. His explicit decision was to step forward and offer to fight Goliath himself. Addressing King Saul, David declared, “Let no one lose heart on account of this Philistine; your servant will go and fight him.” He didn’t just feel an urge; he articulated a clear, courageous choice to confront the seemingly insurmountable foe, grounded in his past experiences with God’s deliverance from lions and bears.

Role in Leadership/Decision-Making: David’s decision exemplifies courageous conviction. In a situation where experienced warriors were paralyzed by fear, a young man, relying on God’s power, chose to act. His leadership was not about physical stature or military rank, but about a deep-seated faith that empowered him to make a radical decision. This teaches us that true leadership often involves making unpopular or risky decisions when the status quo is failing. It demands faith to step into uncomfortable situations, trusting that God will empower us to overcome challenges that seem overwhelming.

Nehemiah: The Bold Request (Nehemiah 2:1-8)

Centuries after the initial glory of Israel, Jerusalem lay in ruins, its walls broken down, its people in disgrace. Nehemiah, a Jewish exile serving as cupbearer to King Artaxerxes in Persia, was burdened by this news. After a period of prayer and fasting, he seized a divinely appointed moment.

The Decision: When King Artaxerxes noticed Nehemiah’s sadness and asked him why, Nehemiah made the crucial decision to reveal his distress and articulate his bold request to be sent to Jerusalem to rebuild the city walls. This was a high-stakes moment; approaching a powerful king with such a personal petition carried significant risk. Nehemiah prayed briefly, then explicitly stated his desire: “If it pleases the king… send me to Judah, to the city where my ancestors are buried, so that I can rebuild it.” He didn’t just express sorrow; he presented a solution and requested the authority and resources to execute it.

Role in Leadership/Decision-Making: Nehemiah’s decision highlights strategic boldness and proactive problem-solving. He didn’t wait for someone else to take action. He leveraged his position, prepared his request, and chose the opportune moment to present it. His decision was not impulsive but born from prayer, planning, and a deep sense of purpose. This shows us that biblical decision-making often involves discerning the right timing, articulating a clear vision, and humbly yet confidently presenting a solution to those in authority, all while relying on God’s favor.

Becoming Biblical Decision-Makers in Modern Life

These biblical narratives offer more than just historical accounts; they are blueprints for godly leadership in our own lives. As Christian men, how can we emulate Adam, David, and Nehemiah in our daily decision-making?

  1. Embrace Stewardship and Initiative: Like Adam, recognize the spheres of influence God has entrusted to you – your family, your work, your church. Don’t wait for others to define your role. Proactively take ownership, make informed decisions within your delegated authority, and seek to bring order and purpose to your environment.
  2. Cultivate Courageous Conviction: Like David, be prepared to stand firm in your convictions, especially when fear or popular opinion dictates otherwise. This means discerning God’s will and acting on it, even when it feels risky or unpopular. It requires faith to confront challenges that seem insurmountable, trusting in God’s power to work through you.
  3. Develop Strategic Boldness: Like Nehemiah, approach challenges with prayerful preparation and strategic thinking. Don’t shy away from making bold requests or taking on daunting tasks if you believe it aligns with God’s purpose. Learn to discern opportune moments, articulate your vision clearly, and humbly yet confidently seek the resources and support needed to bring about positive change.

The weight of the crown, the responsibility of leadership, is not meant to crush us, but to empower us to reflect God’s own order and purpose in the world. By consciously choosing to be decisive, faithful, and proactive in our decision-making, we can honor God and lead effectively, becoming the biblical men our families, churches, and communities desperately need.

The Word of God: A Lamp Unto Our Feet (Psalm 119:105)

Psalm 119:105 states, “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” This verse underscores the importance of studying and following God’s Word, while also suggesting that its guidance often illuminates only the next few steps of our journey, not the entire path. Imagine a traveller navigating a dark forest with a modest torch. The beam reveals just enough to avoid a stumble or choose a trail, but the path’s end remains hidden. This is how God’s Word functions: a guide for the immediate step, requiring faith for the destination.

A lit lamp 

The forest analogy highlights Scripture’s role. The traveller’s torch lights the ground ahead, but not the journey’s end. Similarly, we crave certainty about our future—careers, relationships, or spiritual growth—but God’s Word is a lamp, not a floodlight. It provides clarity for the present, urging us to act faithfully while trusting God for what lies beyond. Studying Scripture equips us to discern the next right step. For example, Micah 6:8—“act justly, love mercy, walk humbly with your God”—guides moral choices, while Philippians 4:6-7 offers peace through prayer. Immersing ourselves in the Bible keeps the lamp fuelled, preventing us from stumbling in life’s uncertainties.

The lamp’s limited glow also teaches faith. The traveller presses on, trusting the torch for each step. Likewise, God’s Word may not reveal our ultimate purpose, but it shows enough to move forward. Proverbs 3:5-6 reinforces this: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Obeying the next step—applying for a job, reconciling a relationship, or resisting temptation—aligns us with God’s plan, even if the full path is unclear.

This perspective frees us from overthinking. We often wait for a grand revelation, when God asks only for obedience in the obvious next step. Matthew 5:23-24 urges reconciliation; James 4:7 calls us to resist temptation. The lamp shines on these choices, and our task is to act, trusting God for the rest. Over time, as we obey, the straight path promised in Proverbs emerges, leading to unexpected opportunities or deeper fulfilment.

Ultimately, we need not map the entire journey. God, the master cartographer, knows the way. Our role is to keep His Word close, study it diligently, and follow its light one step at a time. Open your Bible, seek God’s wisdom, and obey the next step. Trust Him, as Proverbs advises, and let Him make your path straight. The forest may be dark, but with God’s Word as your lamp, you’ll never walk alone.

A Mighty Message in a Little Letter – 3 John: A Call to Faith, Hospitality, and Truth

Imagine receiving a personal letter from a trusted friend, filled with encouragement, warnings, and a call to live faithfully. The letter of 3 John is just that—a brief but powerful message that resonates with us today. Written by the Apostle John, this short epistle addresses Gaius, a faithful believer, and tackles issues in the early church. In this post,I will unpack the key themes of 3 John, outline its structure, and offer practical applications for our lives.

Though concise, 3 John reveals timeless truths about walking in truth, showing hospitality, and confronting challenges in the church.

A cartoon postman/mailman carrying a tiny letter with a church in the background as if he is delivering this small but important epistle

Context and Background

The letter of 3 John is traditionally attributed to the Apostle John, the same author of 1 and 2 John and the Gospel of John, based on its similar style and theological emphasis. Likely written in the late 1st century, the letter is addressed to Gaius, a beloved member of a Christian community, with references to two other figures: Diotrephes and Demetrius. The setting appears to be a church facing internal conflicts, particularly regarding the support of traveling missionaries and issues of authority.

John’s purpose in writing is multifaceted: to commend Gaius for his faithfulness, to warn against the disruptive behavior of Diotrephes, and to encourage continued support for missionaries spreading the gospel. Despite its brevity—only 14 verses—3 John holds significant value for understanding personal relationships, truth, and hospitality in the early church. It reminds us that even small acts of faithfulness can have a lasting impact.

Outline of Key Topics in 3 John

Greeting and Commendation (Verses 1-4)

The letter opens with John’s warm greeting to Gaius, whom he addresses with affection and describes as beloved. John expresses joy upon hearing that Gaius is “walking in the truth,” a phrase that underscores Gaius’ faithfulness to the gospel. This section highlights the importance of living a life aligned with God’s truth, a central theme of John’s writings. For John, truth is not merely intellectual assent but a way of life that reflects commitment to Christ.

Hospitality and Support for Missionaries (Verses 5-8)

John praises Gaius for his hospitality toward traveling Christian workers, likely itinerant missionaries spreading the gospel. Gaius has provided practical support, such as food and shelter, enabling these workers to continue their ministry. John urges Gaius to persist in this generosity, noting that supporting such workers makes believers “co-workers for the truth.” This section emphasizes the role of hospitality in advancing God’s kingdom and our shared responsibility to support gospel work.

Warning Against Diotrephes (Verses 9-10)

John then addresses a troubling issue: the behavior of Diotrephes, a church member who rejects John’s authority and refuses to welcome traveling missionaries. Diotrephes’ actions are driven by pride, as he seeks preeminence and even expels those who disagree with him. John promises to address this behavior directly if he visits, highlighting the dangers of pride and division in the church. This section serves as a caution against self-centered leadership that undermines the unity and mission of the Christian community.

Commendation of Demetrius (Verses 11-12)

In contrast to Diotrephes, John commends Demetrius, who has a good reputation among the church and is likely a missionary or leader. John encourages Gaius to “imitate what is good” rather than evil, presenting Demetrius as a godly example. This brief section underscores the value of positive role models in the Christian life and the importance of character in leadership.

Closing and Personal Note (Verses 13-14)

John concludes with a personal note, expressing his desire to visit Gaius in person rather than communicate only through letters. He sends greetings from mutual friends and blesses Gaius with peace. This closing reinforces the value of personal connection in the Christian community, reminding us that relationships are central to the life of the church.

Practical Applications for Today

The letter of 3 John, though written to a specific individual in a specific context, offers timeless lessons for us today. Here are five practical applications for living out its teachings:

Walking in Truth

John’s joy over Gaius’ faithfulness encourages us to prioritize studying and applying Scripture in daily life. We ought to live out biblical truth in our actions and decisions, not just understand it intellectually. We should foster accountability by engaging in Bible study groups or mentoring relationships to stay rooted in God’s truth.

Practicing Hospitality

Gaius’ support for missionaries challenges us to open our homes and resources to those in need, particularly those serving in ministry. We should consider hosting a missionary, supporting a local outreach, or providing practical help to church workers. We ought to cultivate a culture of generosity in our churches by organizing initiatives to support global or local missions.

Addressing Division

The example of Diotrephes serves as a warning against prideful or divisive behavior in the church. We should confront such issues with humility and grace, seeking reconciliation and unity. We ought to promote a shared focus on the gospel to prevent self-centeredness from fracturing our communities.

Imitating Godly Examples

Demetrius’ good reputation highlights the importance of seeking and becoming godly role models. We should identify mentors who reflect Christlike character and strive to emulate their faith and integrity. Likewise, we ought to inspire others by living with consistency and humility in our communities.

Building Personal Connections

John’s desire for a face-to-face visit underscores the value of personal relationships in the church. We should invest in meaningful interactions, whether through small groups, one-on-one discipleship, or sending encouraging notes. Building strong connections strengthens our churches’ witness and fosters mutual support.

Conclusion

The letter of 3 John, though only 14 verses long, is a rich and relevant message for us today. It calls us to walk in truth, practice hospitality, confront division, follow godly examples, and build personal connections. These timeless principles challenge us to live faithfully in our churches and communities. We should reflect on how we can apply these lessons—perhaps by supporting a missionary, fostering unity, or mentoring others. Let 3 John inspire us to love generously and strengthen the body of Christ.

If you would be interested in doing a verse by verse study of this letter, do let me know in the comments! Thanks 

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