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Traits of a Biblical Man: The Enduring Spirit 

Have you ever felt like giving up? I know I have. Recently, at work, I was having a tough time. It felt like I wasn’t making any progress in my career. Day-to-day tasks felt dull and unchallenging, and I was hungry for bigger and better things. The temptation to throw in the towel was strong. But, I pressed on, emphasised excellence in my work, and eventually, I got a breakthrough with a promotion.

Biblical perseverance isn’t just stubbornness, but a steadfast commitment rooted in faith and trust in God, even amidst trials. It’s crucial for spiritual growth, fulfilling God’s calling, and enduring hardship for Christ’s sake. Biblical men are called to be resilient, and this post will explore this vital trait, drawing inspiration from key figures, so we can apply these lessons to our walk with Christ.

Cartoon-style elderly man with a long white beard and bushy eyebrows, wearing a blue robe and sandals, standing outdoors in a mountainous landscape. He is smiling broadly and winking, while holding a massive barbell with large weights above his head in a triumphant pose. The sky is bright blue with fluffy clouds, and green trees and rocky mountains surround him, giving the scene a lively and energetic atmosphere.

The Apostle Paul: Pressing On Towards the Goal

Consider the life of the Apostle Paul. After his dramatic conversion, he embarked on immense missionary journeys, facing a vast array of suffering. Shipwrecks, beatings, imprisonment, and constant opposition marked his path. Yet, he never wavered.

Philippians 3:14 encapsulates his spirit: “I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.” “Pressing on” speaks of effort, determination, and forward momentum despite obstacles. Paul’s “goal” was his spiritual life and calling, and his “prize” was the reward of faithfulness.

He faced countless trials, but his focus remained fixed. He understood that true biblical perseverance is about keeping one’s eyes on the ultimate prize – Christ – regardless of earthly circumstances. Paul’s life demonstrates this powerfully.

Caleb: Unwavering Faith and Steadfastness

Caleb, one of the twelve spies sent into Canaan, offers another compelling example. Unlike the other ten, who were fearful, Caleb remained confident in God’s promise.

Numbers 13 and 14 recount how the spies assessed the land and the people’s subsequent fear and rebellion. Caleb, however, trusted God, even when facing overwhelming odds and popular dissent.

His perseverance led to him inheriting the land promised to him (Joshua 14:6-15), even forty-five years later. At 85, he was still strong and zealous, a testament to a life lived with unwavering faith. Caleb’s story illustrates that perseverance is not just about enduring hardship, but also about holding fast to God’s promises and acting on faith, even when others falter.

Joseph: A Picture of Enduring Hope

Joseph’s life is a powerful picture of enduring hope. From being the favoured son to being betrayed by his brothers, his journey was filled with adversity.

He faced enslavement in Egypt, false accusations, and imprisonment. Even in prison, he waited patiently, hoping the cupbearer would remember him, trusting God’s plan even when circumstances seemed bleak.

Joseph maintained integrity in Potiphar’s house. He exercised patience and hope during prolonged suffering. Ultimately, his reconciliation with his brothers and his understanding of God’s sovereign hand (Genesis 50:20) reveal the depth of his perseverance. Joseph’s life shows that perseverance is about maintaining faith and hope through extended periods of injustice and suffering, knowing that God is working all things for good.

Application: Cultivating a Resilient Spirit

How can we cultivate this resilient spirit in our own lives?

  • Rooted in God’s Word: Daily scripture reading and meditation are foundational. The Bible provides divine wisdom, comfort, and reminders of God’s unchanging character and promises. When we immerse ourselves in His Word, we strengthen our faith and build a robust spiritual foundation that can withstand the storms of life. It’s where we find the strength to keep going when our own resources are depleted.
  • Prayer: Seeking God’s strength and guidance in challenging times is indispensable. Prayer is our direct line to the Almighty, allowing us to articulate our struggles, express our doubts, and lay our burdens before Him. It’s through prayer that we receive peace that surpasses understanding, divine intervention, and renewed spiritual energy to face another day. It reminds us that we are not alone in our battles.
  • Community: Leaning on brothers in Christ for support and encouragement is vital. We are not designed to walk this path in isolation. A strong Christian community offers accountability, practical help, and empathetic understanding. Beyond general fellowship, we can cultivate what some call a “foxhole” – a tight-knit group of men you can call on any time, day or night, to stand with you in a time of trial. This kind of deep, trusted brotherhood is essential. Be a part of a group of men like that; actively seek out and build such a group. More importantly, be the kind of man who will consistently be there for his brothers in their time of need. This level of committed support prevents the isolation that can erode our resolve to persevere.
  • Focus on the Long-Term: Shifting our perspective from immediate gratification to eternal rewards is crucial for endurance. The temporary discomforts and trials of this life become bearable when viewed against the backdrop of eternity. Remembering the ultimate prize – an eternal dwelling with Christ – provides profound motivation to press on, knowing that our present sufferings are incomparable to the glory that awaits us.
  • Embrace Discomfort: Viewing trials as opportunities for growth and spiritual refinement changes our entire outlook. Instead of seeing difficulties as setbacks, we can embrace them as tools in God’s hand to shape our character, deepen our faith, and increase our reliance on Him. Just as gold is refined by fire, our perseverance is forged in the crucible of adversity, making us stronger and more Christ-like.
  • Trust in God’s Sovereignty: Remembering that God has a plan even when we don’t understand it brings profound peace. When we trust that God is in control, even amidst chaos and uncertainty, we are freed from the burden of needing to orchestrate every outcome ourselves. This confidence in His overarching purpose allows us to surrender our anxieties and continue forward with assurance, knowing that He is working all things for our good and His glory.

Biblical perseverance equips men to face life’s battles with resilience, not giving up on their faith, families, or callings. The Christian man is a “keeps-on-keeping-on” man.

None of the men we have considered today had it easy. They endured long periods of trial, and while we all hope and long for a victorious ending, not all get that in this life. While we have no doubt that God will make everything right in the end, we also remember examples of men who remained faithful and yet were martyred or forgotten. This is hard to take sometimes, but for biblical men, our goal is not our own fame or fortune but the glory of God. He must increase, and we must decrease. 

Conclusion

Perseverance is vital for biblical men. The examples of Paul, Caleb, and Joseph demonstrate its power. Embrace perseverance as a core trait of your Christian walk, trusting that God will empower you to “press on” and “keep on keeping on” for His glory. Reflect on areas in your life where you need to cultivate greater perseverance.

He Dreamed a Dream (Joseph #2)

Joseph dreamed a dream, and he told it to his brothers, and they hated him all the more. 6 He said to them, “Please hear this dream which I have dreamed: 7 for behold, we were binding sheaves in the field, and behold, my sheaf arose and also stood upright; and behold, your sheaves came around, and bowed down to my sheaf.”

8 His brothers asked him, “Will you indeed reign over us? Will you indeed have dominion over us?” They hated him all the more for his dreams and for his words. 9 He dreamed yet another dream, and told it to his brothers, and said, “Behold, I have dreamed yet another dream: and behold, the sun and the moon and eleven stars bowed down to me.” 10 He told it to his father and to his brothers. His father rebuked him, and said to him, “What is this dream that you have dreamed? Will I and your mother and your brothers indeed come to bow ourselves down to the earth before you?” 11 His brothers envied him, but his father kept this saying in mind.

Genesis 37:5-11 (WEB)

Read part one of this series on Joseph here – Joseph’s Beginnings

Joseph dreamed a dream, and he told it to his brothers. Many will question the wisdom of doing this in the generations since he had this dream. Before we even find out its contents, we learn that his brothers hated him all the more.

We learned in the previous post, and the earlier part of the chapter, that Joseph’s brothers hated him. This was largely down to his father’s favouritism causing them to feel like second-class sons. Joseph had also brought a bad report about them to his father, which did not exactly endear them to him. We now find out that Joseph shared the contents of a dream with them, escalating matters further.

The first dream

In this dream, Joseph describes how they were all binding sheaves in the field. This would have been an activity familiar to them all, but then the sheaves take on a life of their own and Joseph’s one stands upright. The other sheaves, representing the brothers then gather around and bow down to Joseph and his sheaf.

You do not need to be a master interpreter of dreams to figure out what this meant. Having lived in Joseph’s shadow for years, the brothers already believing their father thought them inferior to him, now hear Joseph himself saying that he is superior. This kind of dream would have been thought of as prophetic, and that he was proclaiming to them that they would one day bow before him.

Verse 8 again reiterates their hatred for him. In only a few short verses, we’ve been told a number of times of their hatred for him, which underlines the strength of their feelings. It also shows that they hated him not only for the dream itself, but also his words.

This is a point of debate. Should Joseph have told them? Let’s discuss that at the end.

The second dream

Joseph dreams a second dream, and again decides to share. This dream is similar, but instead of sheaves this time, it is heavenly lights. The sun, moon and eleven stars bow down before Joseph’s star. This dream, as before, is not difficult to interpret.

The distinction here is that it is not merely the eleven brothers who would bow down to him, but the “sun and moon” also. Jacob, in his rebuke of Joseph (which may have been long overdue), interprets these two things for us. Clearly, the sun and moon refer to Joseph’s father and mother. It is now not just the brother who would bow, but Joseph’s parents too. This is indeed a bold claim, as parental authority was very important in those days (and arguably should be no less so now).

After Joseph has shared both dreams with his family, their response is the same. They both question him, saying “Will we really?” I hear the sarcasm in their tone here, and yet the Bible does not record Joseph responding to either time of questioning. Is that because the answer is plain? At no point are we told that Joseph even questioned the dreams.

And this leads us on to the question I posed above – should he have told them?

Humility

To stand before a group of your peers, friends or family and say that one day they will all bow down before me does not scream “humility” does it? In fact, we might label it as arrogance or pride.

Yet, what is humility? It certainly isn’t the opposite of arrogance as we know it. An arrogant person, in our vernacular, is someone who displays an almost offensive level of self-importance – “self” is a key word here.

The opposite, as we know it, is humility. I think, however, we wrongly define it. We believe that a humble person is the opposite of arrogant. It is someone who is perhaps shy, or timid, or who fades into the background not wishing to speak up or be seen. This kind of extremity is not humility in my mind, and actually as someone who is naturally quite shy (and many will laugh at that very idea), I can say that shyness is not humility. A shy person is just as much focussed on themselves as the arrogant person. While an arrogant person promotes themselves and how wonderful they are, a shy person may lack self-esteem to the point where they do not speak up for fear of what others may think. Their attention is on themselves and how they are perceived.

Humility does not focus on self; not in the negative or in the positive. Humility is not self-centred, but God-centred.

Joseph was, believe it or not, very humble to stand before his family and say such things. God put these dreams in his mind, and he was so excited about what God had said to him, he just shared it. Were they truly loving or humble themselves, they would have been excited for him too.

How do you react when someone excitedly tells you they have been blessed with something you’ve been praying for (for yourself) for years? Are you excited for them, or are you jealous? Do you ask yourself what they’ve done to deserve it, or think in your heart – “I’m a more spiritual Christian than they, I read the Bible, I pray, I give, I… I… I…”

They knew the truth

Verse 11 closes out this passage by saying that the brothers were envious of Joseph, and that Jacob kept these things in his mind.

You cannot truly love someone you are envious of. To be envious is to say that you want what they have, or worse, that you believe you are more deserving of it than they are. That is not love. Love wants what’s best for them, and takes no account of what we do or don’t have.

The other thing that envy points out is that they believed it. Had they dismissed it as the fantasies of a daydreamer, then they would have had little need to be envious. The envy shows that they, in their hearts, did believe one day he would rise up above them.

Jacob, likewise, stored up these things in his heart. He kept them in mind, and also knew that these things would come to pass one day.

As I close, I realise I have not directly answered the question: should Joseph have told them? Perhaps, perhaps not. It shows some naivety on his part to think they, who already hated him, would somehow be pleased to hear this. We have no indication that God instructed him to share this with them. The things that God reveals to us are often deeply personal and should not be lightly shared with others.

Joseph was an inexperienced young man who was no doubt excited by what God had revealed to him. All of us would have felt the desire to share the good news with our loved ones, but let us not forget that not everyone will see God’s vision for our lives.

As I close, we will go on next to see what their intense hatred of Joseph leads his brothers to do. Had he not told them these dreams, would they have still done it? We don’t know. But we do know that God’s plan and purpose would have come to pass.

What has God revealed to you? What is His plan and purpose for your life? Don’t just let life unfold before you, seek God’s will and live for Him today and every day.

Joseph’s Beginnings (Joseph #1)

Jacob lived in the land of his father’s travels, in the land of Canaan. 2 This is the history of the generations of Jacob. Joseph, being seventeen years old, was feeding the flock with his brothers. He was a boy with the sons of Bilhah and Zilpah, his father’s wives. Joseph brought an evil report of them to their father. 3 Now Israel loved Joseph more than all his children, because he was the son of his old age, and he made him a tunic of many colors. 4 His brothers saw that their father loved him more than all his brothers, and they hated him, and couldn’t speak peaceably to him.

Genesis 37:1-4 (WEB)

There has been much written about Joseph, whose life is described in the book of Genesis starting at chapter 37. You may know him as the young man who dreamed dreams and wore a rather colourful coat. For some time, I have wanted to write about him, and see what we can learn from his life. We may be familiar with the Hollywood or Broadway version of events, but what does the Bible actually say about him and what happened?

Let’s take a look at the life of this remarkable young man and learn what we can.

The story begins in the land of Canaan, where we find Jacob (Joseph’s father) living in the land of his forefathers – namely, Isaac and Abraham.

The story opens with Joseph being seventeen. Although it does not say so in the text above, Joseph was the first son of Jacob’s wife Rachel. Rachel was Jacob’s favourite wife, for he had two (Leah being the first) but also, as above, two concubines named Bilhah and Zilpah. Most of Jacob’s twelve sons were born to him via Leah, with Rachel bearing Joseph and Benjamin. Knowing these details will be important later!

The passage above says that Joseph was boy with the sons of Bilhah and Zilpah – who were they? As mentioned, these were the sons of Jacob and the two concubines. They were Dan and Naphtali (of Bilhah) and Gad and Asher (of Zilpah).

An evil report

The first thing we learn about Joseph is the almost throw away remarks of these first few verses of chapter 37. We learn of his age (seventeen) but also that he grew up with these other boys. We are told that Joseph brought an evil report about them to his father. We do not know the nature of this, and so it is difficult to draw too many conclusions here.

Several scenarios are possible. It could have been a complete lie, for example, and Joseph just telling tales on his illegitimate brothers… but this seems very inconsistent with Joseph’s character elsewhere described in Genesis. Most likely, they were up to no good and Joseph told on them. The Bible does not record Jacob’s response.

Was this a good idea on Joseph’s part? It is hard to say without knowing more details. If one of my children were playing with matches, I would want one of the others to tell me about it. We can surmise that Dan, Naphtali, Gad and Asher weren’t best pleased with Joseph for this.

Some would accuse Joseph of naivety, particularly later when we read about his dreams and what he tells his family about them. This is likely true, but I think it also shows a great humility in Joseph which we will explore another time.

Having favourites

Verse three tells us that Jacob favoured Joseph over his brothers. It gives reasons for this; that Joseph was born to Jacob in his old age, but also that he was born of Rachel, Jacob’s favoured wife.

Jacob gave Joseph a tunic of many colours. This was quite a gift for a number of reasons. Brightly coloured clothing meant expensive dyes, and such a garment would not have been an everyday item. Such colours would have been reserved for the wealthy or people of some high importance. Kings, for instance, would have worn such items.

In addition, it would have signalled two major things to those who saw him wearing it. Firstly, it would have simply stood out from the rest. In a crowd of twelve brothers, Joseph would have been clear to see and marked out as special in some way. Secondly, colours of this nature would have meant leadership and superiority. Jacob was perhaps prophetically signalling Joseph’s rank above the rest.

Having favourites in a family is not a good idea. In a big family, there will always be those characters we get on well with and those we find it more difficult. Even our children can have a wide variety of personalities, and so, it can be easier to connect with some than others. The problem comes when we do not put an equal amount of effort into the relationships which are naturally more difficult. When we compare one child against another, it creates animosity. When we bestow expensive or special gifts on one, and not the other, the rest feel less valued and somehow less adequate.

This favouritism will lead to the major events of Joseph’s life. As we will see, Joseph will go through no small amount of suffering, and although it all turns out for God’s glory, what might have been different had Jacob been less obvious about who he favoured.

Hated

What is the result of Jacob’s favouritism? He brothers saw and knew it, and as a consequence, they hated Joseph. Each one was a son of Jacob, each one lived and served the family, and yet each one felt somehow less than Joseph was. Joseph’s actions of giving a bd report would have only added to this hatred (even if he had the best of intentions).

Hate is a powerful word. When my children use it in anger or in vain, I pull them up on it. Hatred should be reserved for evil and sin, and not tossed around lightly. Joseph’s brothers hated him, wishing him ill and later bringing it upon him.

Their hatred for him was so powerful that they could not even speak civilly to him. Imagine living in a household like this? The strife and tension would have been evident for all to see. To live in such an atmosphere would have been intolerable. We must also never underestimate the dangers of living in strife.

For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.

James 3:16 (KJV)

Where there is strife, there is “every evil work!” Strife opens the door for the enemy to work in our lives, and we must shut that door at all costs.

Jacob’s actions led to the brothers of Joseph hating him. You may find yourself in a place where someone else’s actions have led you to feel hatred for someone else. Perhaps your parents did to you what Jacob did to Joseph’s brothers. I cannot imagine the pain you must feel for this. If you are able, pray about the situation and tell God how you feel. Ask Him to help you forgive and let go of the hatred. If you simply cannot right now, just bring your pain to the Father and let Him minister to you.

One of the things I love about the Bible is that it does not sugar coat anything. Jacob, Joseph and his brothers were a real family with real problems leading to real pain. Many of us can relate! As we study Joseph’s life, I pray that God will help us learn their lessons and not repeat their errors. In Jesus’ Name, Amen!