Love in Action: Living out Jesus‘s Commands

Introduction: The Call to Obey God’s Commandments

What does it mean to love God in a world filled with challenges? The Bible provides a clear answer: loving God is inseparable from obeying His commands. In 1 John 5:2–3 (NIV), we read, “This is how we know that we love the children of God: by loving God and carrying out his commands. In fact, this is love for God: to keep his commands. And his commands are not burdensome.” The apostle John emphasises that obedience is the tangible expression of our love for God. Far from being oppressive, God’s commands are designed to lead us into abundant life.

This post begins a series exploring how we can live out our love for God by obeying the commands of Jesus. Today, we focus on three specific commands: loving our neighbour, forgiving others, and making disciples. Each command offers practical ways to reflect God’s love in our daily lives. By examining their meaning and application, we can take steps toward a deeper, more obedient faith.

A group of seven people, including both older adults and younger adults, standing together outdoors on a sunny day. They are smiling and appear to be enjoying each other’s company. Several of them are holding bags filled with fresh produce, such as leafy greens and other vegetables. The group is casually dressed, and they are standing on a paved street with yellow buildings and green trees in the background. In the distance, a church steeple is visible. The overall mood is cheerful and communal, suggesting they may have just come from a market or community event.

Examining Three Commands of Jesus

Command 1: Love Your Neighbour as Yourself (Mark 12:31)

Jesus declares in Mark 12:31 (NIV), “The second is this: ‘Love your neighbour as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” Paired with loving God, this command forms the foundation of Christian ethics. It calls us to treat others with the same care, respect, and selflessness we desire for ourselves.

Loving our neighbour does not mean accepting or endorsing sinfulness. True love seeks the ultimate good of others, which may involve graciously challenging sinful behaviour and sharing the Gospel. This command is radically inclusive, extending to friends, strangers, and even those who oppose us. It reflects God’s heart for all people, urging us to see others through His eyes.

Practically, we can obey this command by serving those around us—perhaps helping a struggling neighbour with practical needs or listening empathetically to a friend. Loving our neighbour might also mean gently pointing someone toward God’s truth through the Gospel, offering hope and redemption. For example, consider a church member who invited a colleague to a Bible study, patiently answering their questions about faith. Such actions embody Christ’s love. Reflect on your daily interactions: are they marked by this selfless, Gospel-centred love?

Command 2: Forgive Others (Matthew 6:14–15)

In Matthew 6:14–15 (NIV), Jesus teaches, “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” Spoken in the context of the Lord’s Prayer, this command underscores forgiveness as a cornerstone of Christian life.

Forgiveness means releasing resentment and extending grace, mirroring the forgiveness God offers us. It is not always easy—deep hurts, such as betrayal or injustice, can feel insurmountable. Yet Jesus calls us to forgive, relying on God’s strength to heal our wounds. Forgiveness does not excuse sin but frees us from bitterness and aligns us with God’s heart.

To apply this command, start by praying for those who have hurt you, asking God to soften your heart. Journaling can help process emotions, while seeking reconciliation—where appropriate—can restore relationships. For instance, forgiving a family member who apologised after a dispute can rebuild trust. Forgiveness is often a process, not a one-time act. Begin with small steps, trusting God to guide you toward healing and peace.

Command 3: Make Disciples (Matthew 28:19–20)

Jesus’s final charge, known as the Great Commission, is found in Matthew 28:19–20 (NIV): “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptising them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.” This command calls every believer to share the Gospel and nurture others in faith.

Making disciples involves sharing the good news of Jesus, mentoring new believers, and living as an example of His teachings. This command connects directly to loving our neighbour: there is no greater act of love than sharing God’s love through the Gospel, offering others the hope of eternal life. While the scope is global, discipleship begins in our immediate communities—with friends, family, or colleagues.

Practically, you can obey by sharing your faith with a friend, joining a small group to grow together, or mentoring a new believer. For deeper insight into the Great Commission, I recommend my book, From Doubt to Disciples, which explores how to live out this command with confidence. Grab a copy to discover practical steps for disciple-making. By modelling Christ’s love, your faith can become contagious, inspiring others to follow Him.

Conclusion: Living Out Love Through Obedience

The commands to love our neighbour, forgive others, and make disciples are powerful expressions of loving God, as outlined in 1 John 5:2–3. Loving our neighbour includes sharing the Gospel, not affirming sin, ensuring our love points to God’s truth. Forgiving others reflects God’s grace, freeing us to live in peace. Making disciples, the ultimate act of neighbourly love, spreads God’s hope to others. These commands, though challenging, are not burdensome—they lead to a life aligned with God’s purpose.

Start small: choose one command to focus on this week. Perhaps offer a kind word to a neighbour, forgive a lingering hurt, or share your faith with a friend. God’s grace empowers us to grow in obedience, transforming our lives and communities. This post is the first in a series exploring Jesus’s commands. Future posts will examine others, such as “Do not judge” or “Follow me,” to deepen our journey.

Jesus said if you love me, you will obey me… How much will you love him this week?

Transcription of Beyond Doubt: John 20: 19-31 

For those who prefer to read rather than listen, please see below an edited transcript of my sermon which I shared with you yesterday. 

Peace, Power, and Purpose: Meeting the Risen Lord

Good morning. It’s wonderful to share some thoughts with you today. I was due to speak a little while ago but was unwell, so I’m really pleased to be here now.

Thinking back, I believe I spoke around Easter last year too.
Last year, we looked at the resurrection story through the book of Luke, focusing on the road to Emmaus. This year, we’ve been considering it through John’s Gospel, and today’s passage (John 20:19-31) actually overlaps a little with the end of that Emmaus story, describing events later on that same Resurrection Sunday evening. The disciples from Emmaus may well have been in the very room we read about today. What we know for sure is that Thomas wasn’t with them. We’ll explore more about Thomas, also known as Didymus (the twin), in a few minutes.

There’s a lot in this passage, perhaps more than we can fully unpack in one go, but I hope we can learn a great deal from this powerful story.

In the Locked Room

The passage begins on the evening of that first Easter Sunday. The disciples were gathered together, having been through the tumultuous events of Holy Week. They had witnessed Jesus’ actions in the temple, seen him wash their feet, and then watched him be arrested, illegally tried, crucified, and die.

That very day, they’d also heard the astonishing reports from the women at the tomb – that Jesus’ body was gone. John tells us he and Peter had run to the tomb themselves and confirmed it was empty. Some had even reported seeing the Lord.

Now, huddled together in a locked room, they were terrified. They were afraid of the Jewish leaders who had been willing to kill their leader and wouldn’t hesitate to kill them too. So they were locked away, probably praying, certainly fearful.

Suddenly, Jesus appears among them. He comes and stands right there. There’s some discussion about whether this was a truly supernatural appearance, like a sudden ‘poof’, or if perhaps Jesus simply used a key to enter the locked room. The text itself simply says he “appeared among them”.
However, regardless of how he entered, the event itself is undeniably supernatural. Just a day or two before, this man was dead, crucified. They had seen him die. And now he stands before them, alive. If that isn’t supernatural, I’m not sure what is.

He shows them his hands and his side, displaying the wounds. There is no mistake; this is Jesus, resurrected from the dead.


Peace Be With You


Three times in this passage, Jesus says to the disciples, “Peace be with you.” Considering their backdrop of being locked away and terrified, Jesus appearing and offering this peace is incredibly comforting and reassuring.

They had been unsure about who he was, much like the disciples on the road to Emmaus initially didn’t fully recognise him. By showing them the wounds, Jesus demonstrated his identity. Just as perhaps the Emmaus disciples recognised him as he broke bread (maybe seeing his hands then), Jesus confirms he is the one who was crucified. This is no hoax, no trick.

The Three Things Jesus Said

In that room that night, Jesus says or does three significant things. Let’s look at each one:

“As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.” These words echo the sentiment of the Great Commission, although that event occurred later on a mountain in Galilee (Matthew 28). Here, Jesus is already giving his disciples their mission. He is sending them out into the world. This wasn’t just for the original twelve (or eleven, as it was then); it is for us too. We are not called just to gather inside the church walls, as wonderful as that is, but also to go out and tell everyone about Jesus. As one church worker I heard put it, Jesus didn’t say “Get your programme together and invite them in.” He said, “Go.” We are to go and meet people where they are, in our communities, and tell them about Jesus.

He breathes on them and says, “Receive the Holy Spirit.” This might seem strange to us today, but it’s deeply symbolic. It reminds us of Genesis, where God formed Adam from dust and breathed the breath of life into him. The Old Testament word ‘Ruach’ can mean wind, breath, or spirit. Here, Jesus is breathing life and the Spirit into them. This wasn’t the full outpouring of the Spirit at Pentecost (which we will celebrate in a few weeks), but rather a promise, a ‘down payment’ if you like, of the Spirit that would empower them fully after Jesus’ ascension. Jesus gives them the Spirit because this great mission he’s sending them on is not something they can do in their own strength or wisdom. It’s not about how clever or good we are at talking; it’s about the power and presence of the Spirit working through us and in the hearts of those who hear.

He says, “If you forgive anyone’s sins, their sins are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.” This is perhaps the most challenging verse in the passage, and there isn’t necessarily one single, easy interpretation.

Some have suggested this refers to church discipline, where the church has the authority to ‘forgive’ or ‘withhold forgiveness’ in a disciplinary sense. However, the context here isn’t really about church discipline.

Others see it as a specific, apostolic gift given only to this particular group of disciples, not extending to others or future believers. But I struggle with this too.

Consider the story of the paralysed man brought to Jesus (Mark 2:1-12). When they lowered him through the roof, Jesus didn’t immediately heal him; he said, “Son, your sins are forgiven.” The religious leaders were outraged, rightly observing, “Who can forgive sins but God alone?” Jesus then proved his authority to forgive sins by healing the man, demonstrating the invisible (forgiveness) through the visible (healing). They were correct: ultimate forgiveness of sins against God is God’s prerogative alone. While we forgive one another personally, we don’t have the authority to grant divine forgiveness on God’s behalf.

Also, think about Thomas not being present that night. If this was a special apostolic gift to forgive sins, it would be unfortunate for him to have missed out!
I believe the most consistent interpretation is that this verse refers to the declaration of forgiveness. As the disciples (and we) go out and preach the Good News, when people respond to Christ, believe in him, and follow him, we can confidently declare that their sins have been forgiven by God. Conversely, when people reject Christ, we can declare that they remain unforgiven, because forgiveness is found only in Jesus. It’s a power to announce the reality of a person’s standing before God based on their response to the gospel, rather than the ability to dispense or withhold forgiveness ourselves.

Doubting Thomas

The passage moves on to Thomas. John specifically notes that Thomas, also known as Didymus, was not with them when Jesus first appeared. We don’t know why – maybe he was running an errand! When the others excitedly told him, “We have seen the Lord!”, Thomas’s response was firm: “Unless I see the nail marks in his hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into his side, I will not believe.”


Because of this, he is often labelled “Doubting Thomas.” But perhaps that’s a little unfair. This is the same Thomas who, earlier in John’s Gospel (John 11), when Jesus decided to go to Jerusalem knowing it meant his death, bravely said to the other disciples, “Let us also go, that we may die with him.” Those are not the words of someone uncommitted!


Thomas didn’t want to rely on second-hand accounts. He needed to see, touch, feel, and know for himself that this extraordinary, unbelievable claim – that Jesus was alive after crucifixion – was true. He needed tangible proof. His demand highlights the reality of Jesus’ crucifixion and wounding. (Incidentally, this verse also definitively counters recent claims by some scholars that Jesus wasn’t nailed to the cross; Thomas’s demand for the “nail marks” and Old Testament prophecy about him being “pierced” are clear biblical evidence).


My Lord and My God


Eight days later (a week later, if you count inclusively), the disciples were together again, and this time Thomas was with them. Once more, Jesus appears among them, presumably in a similar manner. Again, he says, “Peace be with you.”


Then, he turns directly to Thomas. “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.”


The text doesn’t explicitly say whether Thomas actually touched him. What it does say is his immediate response: “My Lord and my God!”


What an incredible confession! It’s a step beyond Peter’s earlier confession of Jesus as the Christ, the Messiah. Here, Thomas recognises, after everything they had witnessed, that Jesus is indeed God in human form.


Jesus’ resurrected body, perhaps, had supernatural capabilities – appearing in a locked room, for instance. But importantly, it also carried the wounds inflicted on his earthly body. Those scars remained. One day, we too will have new, perfect bodies in heaven, free from pain and decay. But there will be one person in heaven who carries scars – Jesus. Those wounds will serve as an eternal reminder of the immense sacrifice he made for us. They are badges of honour that we will worship for all eternity.


“My Lord and my God,” Thomas declared.


Why John Wrote


John concludes this passage by stating, “Jesus performed many other signs in the presence of his disciples, which are not recorded in this book. But these are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name.” (John 20:30-31)


John is crystal clear about his purpose. He didn’t record every single thing Jesus did, but he carefully selected specific events and teachings for two reasons:

So that you might know that Jesus is the Messiah, the long-awaited one prophesied in the Old Testament.

So that by believing in him, by putting your trust in this Messiah, you might have eternal life.
This directly ties back to the commission Jesus gave his disciples: “As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.” John wrote his Gospel so that people might know who Jesus is and believe. Likewise, the disciples were sent out to tell the world who Jesus is so that others might believe and have eternal life.


In the same way, you and I today have that same mission. We are sent out to tell everyone about Jesus, so they too might believe he is the Messiah and have eternal life. So they too might join Thomas in saying, “My Lord and my God.”
Can We Say It?


“My Lord and my God.” These are not words to be said lightly. Where is Jesus in the tapestry of your life – your work, your home, your family, your leisure? Is he just somewhere in the picture, or is he at the very top? Is he your primary focus, your absolute priority in all things? Is he both your Lord and your God?


If he is truly both of those things, then nothing else can be more important. This doesn’t mean the other things in life are unimportant – our work, family, and how we spend our time all matter. But Jesus must be our ultimate priority.


The challenge for each of us today is: Can we honestly and truthfully say, alongside Thomas, “My Lord and my God”?


We don’t have the benefit of seeing Jesus physically with our own eyes today. Thomas saw Jesus and believed. But Jesus said to him, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.”


That’s us. We haven’t seen Jesus physically, not like Thomas did. Yet, we believe. And Jesus calls us blessed because of that belief.


That seems a wonderful place to end. We are blessed because we know Jesus, and we believe in him even without seeing him. As we go out from here, let us carry the message of Jesus, encouraging others to say, “My Lord and my God,” and ensuring that we can honestly and truthfully say it ourselves, meaning it with our lives.


Amen.


Let’s pray.
Heavenly Father, we thank you for your word and its truth. Lord Jesus, we know Thomas came to you with doubts, and you graciously encouraged him. Lord, if we have doubts today, we pray that you would also encourage us. We thank you that you bless us even though we haven’t seen you physically; we know you are real. We pray, Lord, that we will keep you in your rightful place in our lives, first and foremost above everything else. We pray today that we can say, “My Lord and my God,” and truly mean those words, living out that commitment authentically. We pray that we would receive your Holy Spirit, empowering us to go out and take the good news of the gospel into our communities, our homes, our streets, our workplaces – into the lives of everyone we encounter. Help us to tell them not only that Jesus is the Messiah, but that by believing in and trusting him, they might inherit eternal life. Help us to go and make disciples. Help us to tell people how wonderful you are. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Beyond Doubt: John 20: 19–31

As ever, it was a tremendous privilege to speak at this morning’s church service. Continuing our Easter services, we were looking at the gospel of John and share below my sermon which I hope you enjoy.

A cartoon image of doubting Thomas standing in the middle of a room looking sceptical 

Hope Beyond Judgement (Micah 4:1-8)

Introduction

Ever relied on a GPS, only to end up completely lost? My father-in-law did—he entered the wrong address in his sat nav and ended up driving around a residential estate looking for a major Metropolitan Hospital! I don’t know what he thought was going to happen – that he’d round the corner and suddenly find this huge hospital right there among the houses! Well, in Micah chapter 4, we round a metaphorical corner from chapters 1, 2, and 3. The stark warnings of sin and judgement vanish, and we find ourselves faced with this passage of hope.

I hesitated to tackle this Old Testament text—it’s challenging, and we often avoid these scriptures, instead favouring a New Testament epistle or a historical narrative or Psalm. In the book of Acts however, the apostles masterfully preached Christ using only the Old Testament, as it was the only Bible they had. This is a skill I fear we’ve largely forgotten.

Let’s explore Micah’s context, unpack this vision of hope, examine its interpretations, and consider what it means for us—sinners redeemed by grace. Here’s the passage:

Micah 4:1–8 (NIV):
“In the last days the mountain of the Lord’s temple will be established as the highest of the mountains; it will be exalted above the hills, and peoples will stream to it. Many nations will come and say, ‘Come, let us go up to the mountain of the Lord, to the temple of the God of Jacob. He will teach us his ways, so that we may walk in his paths.’ The law will go out from Zion, the word of the Lord from Jerusalem. He will judge between many peoples and will settle disputes for strong nations far and wide. They will beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks. Nation will not take up sword against nation, nor will they train for war anymore. Everyone will sit under their own vine and under their own fig tree, and no one will make them afraid, for the Lord Almighty has spoken. All the nations may walk in the name of their gods, but we will walk in the name of the Lord our God for ever and ever. ‘In that day,’ declares the Lord, ‘I will gather the lame; I will assemble the exiles and those I have brought to grief. I will make the lame my remnant, those driven away a strong nation. The Lord will rule over them in Mount Zion from that day and forever. As for you, watchtower of the flock, stronghold of Daughter Zion, the former dominion will be restored to you; kingship will come to Daughter Jerusalem.’”

The Dark Before the Dawn: Micah 1–3 and Historical Context

Picture Judah 2,700 years ago, dwarfed by the menacing Assyrian Empire, ready to strike. Micah, a prophet from rural Moresheth, spoke into this tension. His real alarm, though, was sin. Chapter 1 blasts the people for chasing idols over God—“Their rebellion is their ruin” (Micah 1:5–7). Sin estranges us too—dishonesty, selfishness, neglect. Chapter 2 exposes the wealthy exploiting the poor (2:1–2), while false prophets dismiss guilt (2:11). Chapter 3 condemns corrupt leaders, priests, and prophets, predicting Zion’s ruin (3:12). Sin pervades everything—we’re no exception, deserving judgment. Yet God pivots in chapter 4, offering hope through a Savior.

A Vision of Hope: Summary of Micah 4:1–8

Micah 4:1–8 bursts with promise. Verse 1 begins with “the last days”. To Micah, this is a time in the future and the debate about the “last days” goes on – are we in the last “last days” now? The temple’s mountain rises supreme—an idiom for God’s kingdom or sovereign rule—drawing a parallel to Daniel 2, and the Stone not cut with human hands, which grows to become a great mountain – God’s kingdom and rule.

In verse 2, Gentiles seek God’s ways, and His law flows out from Jerusalem. In verse 3, God resolves conflicts, and the famous picture of turning swords into plowshares is used—this passage a mirror of Isaiah 2:4 and scholars debate which came first. Each person rests “under their own vine and fig tree,” (v4) symbols of peace, secure and unafraid. Verse 5 tells us God’s people stay faithful despite others’ idols. Verses 6–7 depict God gathering the broken—lame, exiles—forming a strong nation under His eternal reign. The section closes with Jerusalem’s dominion returning, a watchtower looking over a flock. This hope, unearned by sinners, comes through a Messiah.

Interpreting the Promise: Major Viewpoints

What does this all mean? Let’s explore the major interpretations.

Jewish View
Jews see this as the Messianic Age—a future when a Davidic king restores Jerusalem’s glory (v. 7). Nations embrace God’s law (v. 2), war ceases (v. 3), and exiled Israel returns (vv. 6–8)—God’s peace through His rule, still awaited.

Christian View 1: Fulfilled in Christ
Some Christians argue Jesus fulfilled this. His cross conquered sin (Romans 3:23–24), making the church the exalted mountain (Acts 15:14–17). Peace begins now (Ephesians 2:14), welcoming the broken (Luke 4:18), with His kingdom launched at the resurrection (v. 8).

Christian View 2: Now and Not Yet
Others see a two-part story. The cross starts it—forgiveness today (1 John 1:8–9)—but Christ’s return completes it, ending war (Revelation 21:4). The church grows (v. 2), His reign maturing from hearts to all (v. 8).

Christian View 3: Millennial Kingdom
A third view expects Jesus to reign 1,000 years (Revelation 20:1–6). Jerusalem rises (v. 1), nations come (v. 2), peace reigns (v. 3), and the broken are restored (vv. 6–7) under His throne (v. 8).

Jews await a Messiah; Christians see Jesus—past, present, or future. Every Christian lens points to Him, our hope against sin through His cross or return.

Living the Vision Today: Practical Application

How do we respond? First, admit our sin. Like Judah—idolatry, greed, lust or whatever—we falter (Romans 3:10). Yet Christ’s cross redeems us (John 3:16). Only our God can transform the wickedness of sin (Micah 1-3) into the saving hope of Christ’s kingdom (Micah 4). We respond by trusting Him. We can’t save ourselves—it’s His gift (Ephesians 2:8–9). Rest in that cross—Jesus paid it all.

This is no mere nod to God – and it should turn our lives upside down. Many people say they believe in God or call themselves Christian, but are their lives surrendered fully to Jesus? The devil believes in God too right?

Conclusion

I have deliberately not pointed to one particular interpretation here, claiming it to be true. I will leave you to study that out for yourselves. However you interpret this prophecy though, I hope we can all agree it points to our hope in Christ. Let’s live like people who believe He will return one day, and perhaps soon.

Come Lord Jesus, come!

Glorify the Lord – Andy Brown

Bringing glory to God is, in essence, why we are here on this Earth. I suppose there are many ways in which we can glorify the Lord. In fact, I would be keen to hear your thoughts on that, so do comment below. What does it mean to you to “glorify the Lord?” How do…
— Read on andy-brown.org/2022/09/27/glorify-the-lord/

900 years (audio)

As always, it was a great honour to speak at my church service yesterday morning. This time, in particular, was special as the church celebrated its 900th anniversary!

A paint by numbers of the church building, contributed to by the entire church family

I share below a recording of the message, based on Luke 4.

Apologies that the sound quality is not the best, but I hope you’re still able to hear what I say clearly.

Enjoy and God bless, and here’s to the next 900 years!

Just as He said He would – Andy Brown

On this Resurrection Sunday, I share the message I gave at last year’s sunrise service at our church.

He is risen! Just as he said he would! Praise the living God! 

Happy Easter! It was my privilege to share for a few minutes this morning at our early morning sunrise service on this Resurrection Sunday. I share below a recording of the message which I hope you enjoy. May you be eternally blessed this Easter weekend! A message from Andy on Easter Sunday morningA message from…
— Read on andy-brown.org/2022/04/17/just-as-he-said-he-would/

The Sinfulness of my Sin – Andy Brown

On a recent blog post, a dear reader commented and use the phrase “sinfulness of sin “.

That reminded me of this post I wrote a few years ago. So I thought I would share it with you today! it considers a verse from Psalm 32, and there is a link to an audio message I gave on that same psalm which you can listen to.

Hope you enjoy, and I welcome your comments as ever! Thank you for reading.

I acknowledged my sin to thee, and my iniquity have I not hid. I said, I will confess my transgressions to the LORD; and thou forgavest the iniquity of my sin. Selah.Psalm 32:5 (WEB) The sinfulness of my sin… captivating title right? And I know what you are thinking – two blog posts in two…
— Read on andy-brown.org/2020/03/18/the-sinfulness-of-my-sin/

Practice Forgiveness (PoW)

Pearls of Wisdom

Marriage is about two imperfect people becoming well practiced at forgiveness

I heard a quote of this kind a while ago, but unfortunately don’t know the original author. My version above is a paraphrase, and I am certain you get the idea!

When married, a couple will inevitably let each other down. It is rarely deliberate, and few want to cause distress or harm. Sometimes needs or wants on one side are misunderstood by the other, and not met, and other times those needs are clearly communicated and yet go unfulfilled. Mistakes are made in tiredness, anger or grief, and sometimes words are spoken which are not intended. I am perhaps no great student of people, yet I have never seen a marriage where this isn’t so. Marriages are hard work and yet absolutely worth the effort.

What is true of marriage is probably also true of all relationships, to a greater or lesser degree.

No matter our differences, there is one thing that is true of us all – not one of us is perfect. Each of us is born a sinner, live in a broken world and often think of ourselves more than we ought. It is rather a miracle that any marriage or relationship works out at all!

People stay together when they forgive one another time and time again. When we stop forgiving, resentment can build and ultimately destroy the relationship.

There are, of course, times when a relationship comes to an end. This is sad, and we can reduce the chance of it happening by willingly and freely forgiving each other for our shortfalls. (Of course, if there are serious issues such as abuse, then forgiveness is no magic wand to wave and repair all the hurt overnight. In such case, more help is required)

How good are you at forgiving your spouse, friend or family member? How often have they had to forgive you in the past? Practise makes perfect, so they say, and as long as you have people in your life, you will have plenty of opportunity to forgive.

Forgiving is not easy, no matter how often we do it. It does not undo hurt or pain, and it does not make bad things good. It is a choice. If, like me, you find it hard to forgive at times, then ask the Lord to help you and remember how wide and deep His forgiveness is for you.

Of All the Mornings Revisited

Beautiful words penned by Bruce Cooper shared for you below on this Easter day. He is risen! Praise the Lord!

Of all the mornings that have ever occured, this Easter morning, when Jesus the Christ, the Son of God, rose from the dead, is the morning above all …

Of All the Mornings Revisited

Just as He said He would

Happy Easter!

It was my privilege to share for a few minutes this morning at our early morning sunrise service on this Resurrection Sunday.

I share below a recording of the message which I hope you enjoy.

May you be eternally blessed this Easter weekend!

A message from Andy on Easter Sunday morningA message from Andy on Easter Sunday morning

Psalm 32 – Sermon

A few years ago I gave a sermon on Psalm 32, and was reviewing my notes from it this morning.

It is one of the penitential Psalms, or Psalms of repentance. It is a wonderful set of verses, and I share below the audio message I gave at the time.

Do have a read of the whole Psalm before listening, as it is not included in the recording.