In the hustle and bustle of Jesus’ ministry, as crowds gathered, drawn by his authoritative teaching and miraculous signs, it’s easy to imagine the excitement in the air. This was a movement unlike any other. It was in this charged atmosphere that a man, an expert in religious law, stepped forward with a bold declaration. His words, recorded in Matthew’s Gospel, seem to be the perfect pledge of allegiance.
“Then one of the teachers of religious law said to him, ‘Teacher, I will follow you wherever you go.'” (Matthew 8:19)

On the surface, this is an exemplary statement. The man, a scribe, was a respected member of society, educated and influential. For him to publicly address Jesus as ‘Teacher’ and pledge to follow him anywhere was a significant commitment. He didn’t offer to follow Jesus to the next town or for a few weeks; his was an open-ended promise: “wherever you go.” It was zealous, unconditional, and exactly the kind of response we might think Jesus was looking for.
Yet, Jesus’ reply is startling. It’s not a warm welcome or a word of encouragement. Instead, it’s a sobering dose of reality.
A Different Kind of King
Jesus’ response bypasses the man’s enthusiasm and cuts directly to the core of what it means to be his disciple. He uses a simple, poignant illustration from the natural world to make his point.
“But Jesus replied, ‘Foxes have dens to live in, and birds have nests, but the Son of Man has no place even to lay his head.'” (Matthew 8:20)
Let’s unpack this profound statement. Jesus observes that even common wild animals have a place of refuge. Foxes have their dens, a place of security and shelter. Birds have their nests, a home to raise their young. These creatures possess a fundamental stability that every living thing craves.
Jesus, however, claims to have less. He identifies himself as the “Son of Man”—a title rich with theological meaning, pointing to both his humanity and his divine authority as the figure from Daniel’s prophecy (Daniel 7:13-14). Yet this heavenly figure, the King of an eternal kingdom, lives as an itinerant. He has no permanent address, no earthly home to call his own, no place of consistent comfort.
What is Jesus truly telling this aspiring follower? He is explaining that the path of discipleship is not a route to earthly security, comfort, or social standing. To follow the Son of Man is to follow a homeless King whose kingdom is not of this world. The scribe was likely accustomed to a life of relative comfort and respectability. Following Jesus would mean surrendering all of it. Jesus doesn’t question the man’s sincerity, but he does challenge his understanding. He forces him—and us—to count the cost.
Our True Home and Security
This brief exchange contains a vital lesson for anyone who seeks to follow Christ today. It calls us to examine our own motives and expectations. It’s easy to be drawn to the wonderful promises of the gospel—forgiveness, peace, and eternal life—without fully appreciating the nature of the one who gives them.
Our culture relentlessly pursues comfort and security. We build our lives around stable careers, comfortable homes, and secure finances. These things are not inherently wrong, but Jesus’ words force us to ask a difficult question: Is our ultimate security found in these things, or is it found in him?
Following Jesus “wherever he goes” will inevitably lead us out of our comfort zones. It may not mean literal homelessness, but it certainly means holding loosely to the things of this world. It means prioritising the values of his kingdom—justice, mercy, humility, and love—over the pursuit of personal comfort and wealth. It requires a fundamental reordering of our affections, where Christ himself, not the blessings he can provide, becomes our greatest treasure.
The great paradox of this passage is that the Son of Man, who had no place to lay his head, is the only one who can offer us a true and eternal home. His homelessness was a necessary part of his mission to secure for us a permanent dwelling with God. He willingly gave up all earthly comfort and security, ultimately giving up his very life on the cross, so that we might be welcomed into his Father’s house (John 14:2-3).
Therefore, when we feel the call to follow him, we must do so with our eyes wide open. The path may not be easy or comfortable. It requires a willingness to detach from the false securities of this world. But in losing our life for his sake, we find it. In him, and him alone, we find our true security, our lasting refuge, and our eternal home.
- Counting the Cost of Comfort (Matthew 8:19-20)
- A Determined Desire: Choosing a Life of Integrity (Psalm 101:2)
- A Heart Captivated: The Foundation of a Godly Life (Psalm 101:1)
- The Richness Within: Christ, Chorus and Christian Community (Colossians 3:16)
- The Sovereign’s Vow (Introduction to Psalm 101) 








